I look up to a lot of people. Every time I meet somebody that is doing something I have always wanted to do, I inspect them and try to see what different did they do to get there. I have always had this weird urge to compare myself with people around me. At first, I thought it was a way of self-improvement, But the more I properly think about it, It was just me trying to become like them because I used to think very highly of them. So much so, that I started changing my decisions according to the thought of “Will they do this?” If the answer was No, then I used to think to myself, “Why am I doing it? This is so embarrassing, Maybe, this is why I am nowhere close to getting there.” and the circle of self-doubting would begin.
Comparison Destroys Personality
Comparison Destroys Personality
Comparison Destroys Personality
I look up to a lot of people. Every time I meet somebody that is doing something I have always wanted to do, I inspect them and try to see what different did they do to get there. I have always had this weird urge to compare myself with people around me. At first, I thought it was a way of self-improvement, But the more I properly think about it, It was just me trying to become like them because I used to think very highly of them. So much so, that I started changing my decisions according to the thought of “Will they do this?” If the answer was No, then I used to think to myself, “Why am I doing it? This is so embarrassing, Maybe, this is why I am nowhere close to getting there.” and the circle of self-doubting would begin.